From birth to death, we continue to SHED®. Shedding is continual process of letting go of the old, and taking on the new.

At Birth, it’s our umbilical cord that is SHED to give us LIFE.

At Death, it’s transformational SHEDDING of our bodies.

Throughout life we go through a lot of attachments and detachments, not the physical ones like birth and death, but they are emotional ones. Your ability to deal with life’s detachments is about obtaining peace and happiness.

“Shedding what no longer serves you isn’t a loss; it’s making room for transformation.”

Kathy B Dempsey

Photo taken by Kathy Dempsey, 2008, Wisconsin

“You Die Well By Living Well Today”

Ron Black


What is a Death Doula?


Death Doulas, like Birth Doulas at the beginning of life, are trained nonmedical support professionals that provides holistic, physical, emotional, and spiritual care for the dying and their loved ones before, during, and after death.

Less than 30% of adults do end of life planning…


Our Team's Services:

  • Speaking, workshops and retreats

  • Life transitions coaching

  • End of life planning

  • Living funerals and festivals of life

  • Legacy projects

  • Life review

  • Mediation and advocacy

  • After death care planning and services

  • Grief support

  • Legacy Planning

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, MD was a Swiss-American psychiatrist, a pioneer in near-death studies, and author of the internationally best-selling book,
On Death and Dying, where she first discussed her theory of the five stages of grief. She graduated to “dance in the galaxies” on August 24, 2004, in Scottsdale, AZ.

“Death is an integral part of life, as natural and predictable as being born,”

Elizabeth Kubler Ross, MD


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Kathy B Dempsey, RN, MED, CSP, didn’t expect to get her “death sentence” at 25 years old. ⁣

But being diagnosed as the first healthcare worker in the country to test HIV positive, she learned, even as an ER trauma nurse, she was not prepared to die.⁣

Kathy is a keynote speaker, award-winning author (8 books) who helps people of all ages with change and transitions. ⁣

With Lenny the Lizard, the powerful metaphor that reminds people to SHED, their mantra is, From birth to death we continually let go of the old and take on the new.⁣

Kathy did her master’s thesis on Death & Dying and has been helping thousands of people SHED for over 30 years. ⁣

She is also a Death Doula and took her training at the world renowned Omega Institute in New York.

Dr. Kimberly Harms has been around the block in life.⁣

She has served as a Commissioned Officer in the United States Public Health Service, a dental school professor, a grief counselor, a death doula, a civil mediator, a clinical dentist with her late husband Jim in Farmington MN, a school board Chair, President of an international women’s organization, the first woman President of the Minnesota Dental Association, a National Spokesperson for the American Dental Association (21 years), an award-winning, best selling author and international speaker on the topics of grief, conflict and legacy planning.⁣

She has also suffered many personal losses, including the deaths by suicide of her mother and son and the death by broken heart of her husband after their son’s death.⁣

Her most important role now is mother to her two surviving children and grandmother to 6 precious grandchildren.

Ever thought about having a LIVE FUNERAL?

Ron Black requested a LIVE FUNERAL before he died on May 12, 2012, at Hospice of the Valley, Scottsdale, AZ.

“You die well by living well today.” Ron Black.

Private Coaching With Kim

Would you like help in ESTABLISHING YOUR LEGACY and living your best life yet? Are you a widow struggling with REDEFINING YOUR PURPOSE?

If so, consider private coaching with Kim.

She offers two coaching programs, the LOVE AFTER LIFE BLUEPRINT for legacy building and
FAITHFULLY FLOURISHING FORWARD, to help widows of faith manage their grief and establish their identity in a higher power.

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